Question 1
Assalamualaikum,
When we first got married, my husband was a kind and gentle man, but after several months, he changed. He became controlling, not wanting me to work or go outside, while he refused to work himself. He expected me to support him but claimed he was sick without any symptoms. He stopped going to Jumah and isolated himself, spending all day in his room with his phone. When I got pregnant, things worsened. He insisted that I abort the baby, saying he didn’t want a “monster” child, and became upset when I refused. My child is now 3 years old and healthy, thank God. He doesn’t support me or the child and dislikes my mother, who is living with us. When our child was very sick, he didn’t want me to take her to the hospital. We have been sleeping separately since the birth. He stays up all night, does light chores around the house, and continues to threaten me. After numerous fights and him demanding money, I sold my car to give him the money he asked for, which he forced me to give. He has been out of my house for over two years now. I asked for a divorce, which was granted under Texas law, but he never showed up for the court hearing. He wants all his mahr (dowry) back, even though he used my money to buy it. He hasn’t supported me or my child in any way. I’ve been raising my child alone.
I have 3 questions:
1. Is the money he forced from me halal for him to take since I gave it under pressure?
2. Am I divorced Islamically?
3. Do I have to return the mahr?
Answer 1
Question 2
I had an argument with my husband, and he kicked me in my lower abdomen. This has happened several times before. Now, he is saying that I provoked him and deserved it. I am thinking about divorce, but I am worried about my children. I don’t want to be hit anymore, as he has a very short temper, and I know this will happen again. What should I do?
Answer 2
Question 3
My mother and husband are in conflict, and my mother thinks I always listen to my husband. My mother and husband don’t get along, and now my mother is not speaking to me. Should I keep listening to my husband or try to reconcile with my mother?
Answer 3
Question 4
What should be done when there is marital discord and disputes between a husband and wife in Islam?
Answer 4
Question 5
What should be done when marital discord arises and conflicts seem to be increasing, especially as the wedding day approaches?
Answer 5
Question 6
If my father commanded me to ask him concerning any questions I have about the deen, but he is not a scholar and may not be able to answer complicated or sensitive questions, am I obliged to follow his command? Additionally, am I required to answer all of my father’s questions truthfully if doing so might cause problems?
Answer 6
Question 7
What are the rights of Mother and Father-in-law towards their daughter-in-law?
Answer 7
Question 8
Is there a good, easy Dua or Wazifa to prevent fights and ease the mind of my husband, as well as help him move forward from repeated thoughts?
Answer 8
Question 9
I have beaten my wife for the first time, and she also hit me back. I am feeling guilty for my actions. We argued because I was not spending enough time with my family due to work. After some tense moments, I slapped her, and she did the same back, causing bruises on my face. I have asked for forgiveness, and she has done the same. What does Islam say about this situation, and what should I do?
Answer 9
Question 10
I have been married for 4 years, and despite my efforts, we constantly quarrel over small things. My wife recently left me and took our child with her. I haven't spoken to her for over two months, and I am feeling lost. I want to reconcile, but I feel helpless. What should I do in this situation? What is the punishment for a woman who leaves her husband like this? What duas or actions can help in this difficult time?
Answer 10